Terry Newsome, dressed in a Downers Grove South High School spirit wear, sits in the school auditorium where he spoke up about Gender Queer last month, on December 13, 2021. (Cara Ding/The Epoch Times)
The Epoch Times | BY CARA DING December 14, 2021 Updated: December 15, 2021
DOWNERS GROVE, Ill.—Terry Newsome, a father of two high school freshmen in a Democratic-leaning Chicago suburb, was never into local school board meetings. That was until five months ago.
Newsome was busy working as an associate vice president at a Paris-based global information services provider. He was also fighting two cancers, one being stage-four prostate cancer.
After he survived that one, his Italian Mom, a devout Catholic, said to him, “Well, son, you must be kept on this earth for something.”
About seven months ago, his then 8th grader son came home from school and told Newsome, “Dad, my teacher just told us there is no American dream. It is not there for everybody, so it is not real.”
Newsome, a descendant of European immigrants who had lived the American dream, was shocked to hear that.
He called the principal, and he reached out to parents, all of which opened his eyes to what is going on at public schools.
“I’m like, ‘Oh my God, I already heard what happened in 8th grade, but it is going to get worse in high school.’”
In July, Newsome attended his first school board meeting at Downers Grove’s Community High School (District 99).
Due to the 20-people limit, several people were blocked from joining the December school board meeting of Community High School District 99, on Dec. 13, 2021. (Cara Ding/The Epoch Times)
He voiced his opinions on hot issues, such as critical race theory and mask mandates. Soon, he emerged as an unofficial spokesperson for a concerned group of mostly mothers.
“The Moms are so happy to have an aggressive, type-A-personality father to join them. They had mostly fought this battle alone, against the giant system of public schools,” Newsome told The Epoch Times.
Weeks ago, Newsome and his group found themselves in a nationwide fight to ban a comic book, with graphic sex scenes, from schools.
‘Gender Queer’ and Cultural War
The book, authored by Maia Kobabe, is called “Gender Queer: A Memoir,” which chronicles Kobabe’s journey growing up as a nonbinary, asexual person. On several pages, Kobabe drew graphic sex scenes between two people. Some captions also contain sexual messages.
Kobabe was often asked during book tours about the recommended ages of readers, and the answer was almost always, “High school and above.”
That is an opinion supported by School Library Journal, a premier national publican for librarians working with children and teens.
The publication puts out more than 6,000 reviews every year, and its 2019 review of Kobabe’s book reads,
“A book to be savored rather than devoured, this memoir will resonate with teens.”
As more and more school libraries across the country opened doors to Kobabe’s books, a growing group of parents, concerned with sexual content, took on a fight to ban them from their children’s places of learning.
Challenging voices can be heard in New Jersey, Texas, and Ohio. Several school districts in Florida, Pennsylvania, and Alaska, have banned the books at schools.
At Fairfax County in Northern Virginia, the epicenter for LGBTQ students’ issues, Kobabe’s books were pulled from, but soon returned, to school libraries.
At D99, Kobabe’s books have also pushed more parents to step from the sidelines and join the fight, according to Christine Martin.
Martin’s son was a student at Downers Grove North High School.
For years, Martin showed up at one school board meeting after another, questioning changes she did not like.
“Parents are finally stepping up to the podium and to tell school boards, school administration, teachers, that what you are teaching within the school is not acceptable,” Martin told The Epoch Times.
“It is growing bigger and bigger. It is very grassroots,” she said.
ANTIFA and Threat
On Nov. 15, at the D99’s monthly meeting, the new school auditorium was packed with about 200 attendees, many parents holding up signs that read “No Porn.”
Newsome and several parents voiced their concerns about Kobabe’s books.
Both Proud Boys and ANTIFA members were there as well, according to parents present at the meeting.
ANTIFA members took pictures of parents speaking out and posted them on their social media account.
One father, Jim DeVitt, received a threatening phone call from an unknown person days after.
An ANTIFA social media account published an image of Jim DeVitt as he spoke out against “Gender Queer” at the November school board meeting in Downers Grove, Ill. (Courtesy of Terry Newsome)
That made Newsome’s wife very worried. She asked Newsome, “Why do you have to do this? You are putting us at risk.”
Newsome said, “I really feel that we are in a war for the future of our children in our country.”
She then asked, “Why you?”
Newsome said, “If everybody in American says, ‘Why me?’ We are not going to have an America anymore.”
“Think about those 18-year-olds that joined the military and fought for America. They came back in a wheelchair with no arms and legs, or they died. Well, why them?” he added.
A week after the board meeting, Newsome and another parent sat down with school librarians and principals to discuss Kobabe’s books.
A Sit Down with Principals
According to the school board policy, any student, parent, or community member, could request a reconsideration of instructional materials used in D99.
On Newsome’s request form, in the section of reasons for objection, he wrote, “The book is child pornography. See photos. If any child sees this book, the result would be giving them access to child pornography.”
That was exactly what Newsome told library administrators and principals at the meeting.
Newsome said he was not against books that depict teenagers who identify with uncommon gender identities. He said he was just not comfortable with the sexual scenes in the books.
When Kim Pakowski, the library chairperson at D99’s Downers Grove South High School, told Newsome she had no formal definition of child pornography, Newsome showed her a printout of a Merriam-Wester definition he had prepared, according to the official meeting minutes obtained by The Epoch Times.
Pakowski then focused on the intention of author. She said the intent of pornography was to provide sexual excitement, but this book’s intent was different—it was to show the author’s unique experiences and journey.
She said she had recommended to add “Fifty Shades of Grey” on to bookshelves. Later, she decided not to, because of author’s sexual intention.
A police officer stands outside the school board meeting of Community High School District 99, on Dec. 13, 2021. (Cara Ding/The Epoch Times)
“Fifty Shades of Grey” landed three times on American Library Association’s annual top 10 list of most banned and challenged books, because of sexually explicit content.
At D99’s two high schools, librarians make the decisions on book selections.
After the meeting, both high school principals, Courtney DeMent and Edward Schwartz, announced their decision to Newsome through email: We agree “Gender Queer” should remain at our libraries.
The book spoke to a unique group of students and had received positive reviews from authoritative organizations, the email read. The graphics also helped reluctant readers to find joy in reading, they added, according to an email obtained by The Epoch Times.
“Students have the choice to check this book out or not; those who do, and find it distasteful, can return it and [hopefully] select another book to read,” they wrote.
On Dec. 1, Newsome raised the issue with D99’s superintendent Hank Thiele.
Thiele replied to Newsome that librarians should not be expected to comment on the legal definition of pornography; that was a lawyer’s job, according to an email obtained by The Epoch Times.
Thiele spoke with school board’s attorneys, and he believed the books were not pornography, he wrote in the email.
After the heated November board meeting, D99’s administrators moved the December meeting from the new spacious stadium to a small community room in an old administrative building.
Keep Beating the Drum
Only 20 people were allowed to attend. Two Downers Grove police officers and one school security guard were assigned to be present at the board meeting.
On Dec. 13, the day of the meeting, Noel Manley, a parent who has been active in local school board meeting for 10 years, arrived an hour and half early to make sure he got a chance to hold the microphone.
This would be D99’s last school board meeting of the year, and Manley wanted to use the three minutes given to each public commenter to summarize issues of the year, including that of Kobabe’s books.
Manley didn’t think D99’s administrators would take Kobabe’s books off the shelves.
Yet, the issue could rally parents to support like-minded candidates in upcoming school board races, Manley told The Epoch Times.
“You have to constantly beat the drum to get people to vote on these issues,” Manley said.
As for Newsome, he did not attend the December meeting at all. He went to an event supporting a local congressional candidate Rob Cruz, who runs on an education agenda that speaks to Newsome.
“Am I going to make a difference? Maybe yes, maybe not,” he said.
“But I got to at least try. I cannot go on and think that I didn’t even try to help my children’s future.”